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Posted: 03/25/2009 in Just Because, Me
I always have loved to learn about personalities and people. I find it all so fascinating. So here is mine:
Portrait of an ESFP – Extraverted Sensing Feeling Perceiving(Extraverted Sensing with Introverted Feeling)

( this is linked to all about me extended 😉 it’s totally me )

As an ESFP, your primary mode of living is focused externally, where you take things in via your five senses in a literal, concrete fashion. Your secondary mode is internal, where you deal with things according to how you feel about them, or how they fit with your personal value system.

ESFPs live in the world of people possibilties. They love people and new experiences. They are lively and fun, and enjoy being the center of attention. They live in the here-and-now, and relish excitement and drama ( i really don’t like drama) in their lives.

ESFPs have very strong inter-personal skills, and may find themselves in the role of the peacemaker frequently. Since they make decisions by using their personal values, they are usually very sympathetic and concerned for other people’s well-being. They’re usually quite generous and warm. They are very observant about other people, and seem to sense what is wrong with someone before others might, responding warmly with a solution to a practical need. They might not be the best advice-givers in the world, because they dislike theory and future-planning, but they are great for giving practical care.

ESFP is definitely a spontaneous, optimistic individual. They love to have fun. If the ESFP has not developed their Thinking side by giving consideration to rational thought processing, they tend to become over-indulgent, and place more importance on immediate sensation and gratification than on their duties and obligations. They may also avoid looking at long-term consequences of their actions.

For the ESFP, the entire world is a stage. They love to be the center of attention and perform for people. They’re constantly putting on a show for others to entertain them and make them happy. They enjoy stimulating other people’s senses, and are extremely good at it. They would love nothing more than for life to be a continual party, in which they play the role of the fun-loving host.
ESFPs love people, and everybody loves an ESFP. One of their greatest gifts is their general acceptance of everyone. They are upbeat and enthusiastic, and genuinely like almost everybody. An ESFP is unfailingly warm and generous with their friends, and they generally treat everyone as a friend. However, once crosesed, an ESFP is likely to make a very strong and stubborn judgment against the person who crossed them. They are capable of deep dislike in such a situation. ( OH HOW THIS IS ME! )

The ESFP under a great deal of stress gets overwhelmed with negatives thoughts and possibilities. As an optimistic individual who lives in the world of possibilities, negative possibilities do not sit well with them.( totally me!) In an effort to combat these thoughts, they’re likely to come up with simple, global statements to explain away the problem. These simplistic explanations may or may not truly get to the nature of the issue, but they serve the ESFP well by allowing them to get over it. ( I TOTALLY DO THIS)

ESFPs are likely to be very practical, although they hate structure and routine. They like to “go with the flow“, trusting in their ability to improvise in any situation presented to them. They learn best with “hands-on” experience, rather than by studying a book. They’re uncomfortable with theory. If an ESFP hasn’t developed their intuitive side, they may tend to avoid situations which involve a lot of theoretical thinking, or which are complex and ambiguous. For this reason, an ESFP may have difficulty in school. On the other hand, the ESFP does extremely well in situations where they’re allowed to learn by interacting with others, or in which they “learn by doing”.

ESFPs have a very well-developed appreciation for aesthetic beauty, and an excellent sense of space and function. If they have the means, they’re likely to have to have many beautiful possessions, and an artfully furnished home. ( i’m waiting for this) In general, they take great pleasure in objects of aesthetic beauty. They’re likely to have a strong appreciation for the finer things in life, such as good food and good wine.
The ESFP is a great team player. He or she is not likely to create any problems or fuss, and is likely to create the most fun environment possible for getting the task done. ESFPs will do best in careers in which they are able to use their excellent people skills, along with their abilities to meld ideas into structured formats. Since they are fast-paced individuals who like new experiences, they should choose careers which offer or require a lot of diversity, as well as people skills.

ESFPs usually like to feel strongly bonded with other people, and have a connection with animals and small children that is not found in most other types. They’re likely to have a strong appreciation for the beauties of nature as well.

The ESFP has a tremendous love for life, and knows how to have fun. They like to bring others along on their fun-rides, and are typically a lot of fun to be with. They’re flexible, adaptable, genuinely interested in people, and usually kind-hearted. They have a special ability to get a lot of fun out of life, but they need to watch out for the pitfalls associated with living entirely in the moment.

Jungian functional preference ordering:
Dominant: Extraverted SensingAuxiliary: Introverted FeelingTertiary: Extraverted ThinkingInferior: Introverted Intuition

Google -meyers-briggs personality test for your results 🙂

To Good Not To

Posted: 02/25/2009 in Just Because, Thoughts

Tagged By Chelle

1. Did you date someone from your school? No, I watched my friends with their relationships and didn’t want to deal with the drama. I did tried to date someone but that was more trouble then it was worth. Ha, who thinks clearly in High School any way

2. Did you marry someone from your high school? Um, no way!

3. Did you car pool to school? yes i did … with a girl named Jessica in her maroon Buick I believe. It was my Junior year. I drove my Senior Year and the other years I bummed rides from my older sister.

4. What kind of car did you have? A green Geo Prism that I crashed the first day of my Senior Year

5. What kind of car do you have now? 2006 Toyota Corolla

6. Its Friday night…where are you now? Who knows, depends where the wind blows

7. It is Friday night…where were you then? Teamed up with the sister missionaries or home

8. What kind of job did you have in high school? I worked for my Dad’s business

9. What kind of job do you do now? I work for

10. Were you a party animal? Nope

11. Were you considered a flirt? nope

12. Were you in band, orchestra, or choir? Choir the last two years of High School

13. Were you a nerd? Far from the definition of one

14. Did you get suspended or expelled? Yeah

15. Can you sing the fight song? Heaven’s No

16. Who was/were your favorite teacher(s)? My History teacher and his name has totally left me right now. So much for being a favorite teacher. LOL

17. Where did you sit during lunch? Whatever fast food place we went to

18. What was your school’s full name? Corcoran High School and Kings Christian High School

19. When did you graduate? 1997

20. What was your school mascot? A Panther for Corcoran and don’t recall the other. LOL

21. If you could go back and do it again, would you? I couldn’t be paid enough
22. Did you have fun at Prom? We didn’t have a Prom at Kings Christian because of parents that didn’t want to have a dance. So we went to Joseph and the Amazing Techni-color Dream Coat. I went with this guy that I thought was “cute” at that time.
23. Do you still talk to the person you went to prom with? no

24. Are you planning on going to your next reunion? No, already passed my 10th. YIKES!

25. Do you still talk to people from school? Not really

26. What celebrities came from your high school? Nada

I just wanted to post some pictures of Aly’s bed made with her quilt. I got her some brown sheets for Christmas. I am proud to say that I have already finished the top piece to the quilt I am making for myself. I will post when I get it quilted. That is a whole nother project. I did the second one all by myself. Ok a few coaching tidbits but nothing compared to this one. It is really relaxing to do once you are in the groove and at least I get lost in the project and don’t realize how long I have been working on it. Maybe someday I will be able to make my own patterns, we will see. For now I am amazed with this.
I decided to put all my favorite thoughts into one spot. The link is on the left side of my blog under Fascinations. Hope you enjoy.